Sunday, May 19, 2013

Fathers and Uncles

Who was that first man?
Was it your uncle?
Your father?
Your coach?
Your scout master?
An older boy?

Where did it happen?
In the shower?
At the gym?
In a tent?
At a sleep over?
In the barn?

Many LBGs (Late Breaking Gays) gay men have been introduced to gay sex by male family members, coaches, uncles, fathers, cousins.

Was it horrible?  
Was it rape?  
Was it consensual?  
Were you too young to consent?  
Were you curious?
Were you ashamed?
Were you manipulated?
Were you used?

I don't know about you but I have obsessed about it and cried about it and been angry about it.

These are important questions but now that you are out - you can dwell on it or deal with it.

I know that have gotten past it.

1 comment:

  1. My first was a 16 yr old neighbor amd his 43 yr old step dad. I was only 12 but the sex was stupendous and totally consensual. We three carried on well in to my twenties. As a result I'm a very oral bottom. Ken